Frequently Asked Questions

These will answer many of the common questions I get asked!

To save MY time and your embarrassment, here you will find the answers to some commonly asked questions below.

Click on the Question to reveal the Answer. If you still feel that need a question answered, feel free to contact me

How Do I Book a Session?

All sessions need to be booked online. Please complete the online booking form, giving as much information as you can, or you can email me at mistress@mistress-lucy-locker.co.uk. After your first session, you will be given access to an online booking system, where you can manage your future bookings.

Is my Privacy Protected?

Yes, of course. Privacy and discretion are a key part of what I do.

I will never text/message/email or call you unless you ask me to.

I have regular business meetings at my house, so there is no need to feel awkward or embarrassed.

Arrive in normal dress (no walking down the road in rubbber or leather please!) you may change in the house. If you are bringing clothing/props, please bring them in a discreet bag or case.

Where are your Sessions held?

My Mistress Sessions are based at my home just outside Beccles on the Norfolk/Suffolk Border. I have a dedicated Playroom that is fully equipped and is in the privacy of my own home.

I am approximately 30 minutes from Norwich, 45 minutes from Ipswich, 2 hours from London. Whay not make a day of it, visit the Seaside as well!

I am easily accessible by Car, Train, Bus, and the Airport (Norwich & Stansted) I occasionally offer visits to existing clients only.

The Day of Your Session?

Please arrive on time. If you are going to be delayed for any reason, please notify me on route. This is my private home so I ask that you respect my privacy as I will respect yours.

Arrive in normal dress (no walking down the road in rubbber or leather please!) you may change in the house. If you are bringing clothing/props, please bring them in a discreet bag or case.

I have regular business meetings at my house, so there is no need to feel awkward or embarrassed. Whilst my Playroom is fully equipped, and I will have all the necessary equipment for your session, due to COVID guidance if you want to be hooded or gagged, please bring your own hood/gag with you, as I will not share the use of these.

You will be met at the door by myself, or my house slave, depending on the type of scene. If you require a pre session chat, that is fine with me (usually a good idea for first sessions, and puts subs at ease)

Your session time starts when you enter my Playroom. Pre and Post session chats on on my time, not yours as I think it’s important to build a rapport.

Once you have entered my Playroom, your session will begin, based on the scene you have requested. 

Are Sessions Safe?

If you feel you need to have use of a safeword, please inform me of it prior to your session. I am experienced, and like to push limits, but will not let you come to harm. If you have any medical issues that I need to be made aware of, please let me know prior to your session by email or message.

If at any time during the session you feel out of your depth, or have a medical need that needs addressing, use your safeword, and we will stop the session and discuss the issue before continuing.

All of my sessions are based on the principals of SSC and RACK and by participating in a session you have acknowledged and understand the risks involved in BDSM activities.

After a Session?

Once the session finishes, you may take a shower if required, and over a cup of tea or coffee a quick post session chat to discuss what you liked, didn’t like, and what else you would like to try another time.

Please also note, for your own privacy I will never text/message/email or call you unless you ask me to.

How Long is a Session?

The minimum session length is 1 hour and the maximum is 3 hours. Longer sessions/overnight sessions are available to existing clients, and need to be agreed in advance.

How Much is a Session?

A 1 hour session is £150. Then an extra £100 per hour or part hour thereafter. So a 1 hour session is £150, 1.5 hours is £200, 2 hours is £250 etc. If you want your session filmed +£50. Use of house slave(s) to session with you, or for you to use for a session from +£50. Watersports (receiving) +£50

How Can I Pay?

Payment information is included in the booking confirmation email, you will receive after your enquiry. All payment information is in my business name for your privacy and discretion. No reference will be made to the services you are receiving.

What Don't You Do?

Full information can be found on my Sessions page, but in brief, No Hardsports, No Blood Play, and No Sex (I am a Mistress, not a prostitute!)

This is my First Time

I’m particularly good at welcomming newcomers. I know it’s new and exciting, and you want to try everything at once!

A good way to start is to choose 2 or 3 things you would like to try, then I can work them into a scene for you.

For a first time, it’s best to book a 1 hour or 1.5 hour session. I am also more than happy to have a pre and post session chat if you feel that is necessary. That is on my time, not yours, and is a good way of helping you get the most from your session.

I like to push limits and feel that helps make the experience more memorable for you, but offer a safe, sane, and fun environment in which to explore.

Do You Session With Couples?

Yes, it’s a common request! Many women send their men to me for punishment! I can video or stream the session if required, or they can be present.

Do You Role Play?

Yes, it’s a really important part of a session! I have an extensive wardrobe and like to dress according to the type of session. Common role play requests, are Police/Prison Officer, Headmistress, CEO, Bank manager, Doctor.

Do You Leave Marks?

If you want me to, yes. If you don’t want marks, that’s fine as well. Type of implement, number and intensity of strokes, will all have an impact on marking or not.

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